Having the “Talk” With a Teenager
In 2019, T.I stated in a podcast that he takes his teen daughter to a gynecologist yearly to confirm if her hymen is still intact. Of course, this raised a lot of talk about educating teens about sex. Having “the talk” with a teenager is a nerve-wracking experience for most parents, especially those who normally do not have deep conversations with their children, and no, you do not go point blank and ask them if they are virgins as that will only make them extremely embarrassed and uncomfortable around you.
These topics are best approached carefully and with much thought because they may play a huge role in changing your relationship with the teenager for better or worse, and yes, you take their word for it as it shows that you trust them. Putting a teenager through the emotional and mental stress of a hymen check is terrible and implies that there is no trust.