Don’t forget about the wedding arrangements
Have you ever made a promise with one of your friends that if both of you are still single by 40, you’ll get married? It’s rather sad to think about it that way, but marrying your best friend doesn’t sound like a terrible idea. What if your crush made you that promise?
On the one hand, it’s kind of flattering to be considered by your crush as an option for marriage. On the other, they think of you as the last resource. If this has happened to you and you are now 40, it is time to look for your crush and tell them to keep their promise.